I am blown away with all the the negativity towards me doing a post about vaccinations. Like I said before I am not choosing a side on that subject. I was simply posting something I read. It hurts my heart to know how cruel some people can be. Sometimes I wonder if I should make my blog private due to this.
Kellie--- Just wanted to let you know that I pray for you daily. I am the mother of a 5 month old little girl after a time of infertility. I know you are just trying to put things out there and keep people informed. Thinking of you today! Jen
THANK YOU for sharing so much great information with your readers. You're doing a great thing. You have opened my eyes to so many options... I can't thank you enough! I love that when it is time to have children I will have a more open mind to what is out there and the best way for ME to care for my children. I hate that others can be so ugly, but I believe that you've done a great job of putting your ideas and then ideas in general out there for us.
THANK YOU SO MUCH! for everything you do. You share all kinds of information. I do not have kids, by my husband and I are trying to get pregnant right now and I truly appreciate all of the things you post about. I do disagree with your post about vaccinations, but at the same time, it made me think about it and if my thinking is correct, that was your point. To get parents thinking about these controversial issues. I think it is TERRIBLE that people can't see this and comment negatively on peoples blogs. You aren't out to hurt anyone. You are the sweetest woman I know! Please, keep posting, keep your head up and most of all KEEP SMILING AND LOVING! :)
I really do hope that you continue leaving your blog open for the public. Your story, even though heart breaking, is truly amazing. You, your husband, and your precious daughter are an inspiration to appreciate your family to the fullest daily. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
I appreciate you sharing all the information that you do! People that post negatively are closed minded and have no right. Parents need to be informed of all possibilities so that they can make the best choices for their family, and you are doing a great thing by sharing all the info that you do. You have taught me alot that I did not already know and have inspired me to be a better mom. I make sure to hug and kiss my kids at least one time each day for Maddie. Thank you for all that you do! (((Hugs)))
One of the best thing I have enjoyed about your blog, as been watching you look at things from all perspectives. Even in your struggles of losing your daughter. It is a horrible loss, that nothing can be done to make it right. Yet, you want to reach out and help others. You would do ANYTHING to prevent one other mother from suffering from your fate. You are an awesome person and I admire your strength.
Don't let the negative Nellie's get you down. There is a lot of controversy to immunizations and there is only a right answer for the individual moms and doctor involved in that specific situation.
I can imagine that people want a concrete reason their baby is gone, and SIDS just doesn't cut it. I would be furious to hear "its just one of those things". I would want an exact reason. I think people search for answers and when they find a possible link its like a glimmer of an answer.
We all just do he best we can and beyond that it is out of our hands. You are right in helping to educate, and the discussion that comes from that, be it negative or positive will provoke thought and inspire education.
Pathetic that people can be that way. Parents need to be informed. Ever since you wrote about the vaccines, I've been doingresearch that I should have done a long time ago. In the coming weeks, im going to hv some guest bloggers, moms who have or have not vaccinated their children, and moms who have but no longer do. I think its a subject that needs to be talked about. And for the record, I think ppl become judgmental because they don't want to face facts.
Pathetic that people can be that way. Parents need to be informed. Ever since you wrote about the vaccines, I've been doingresearch that I should have done a long time ago. In the coming weeks, im going to hv some guest bloggers, moms who have or have not vaccinated their children, and moms who have but no longer do. I think its a subject that needs to be talked about. And for the record, I think ppl become judgmental because they don't want to face facts.
I wanted to comment on your previous post, but I was afraid it would anger some people. I don't know how you put yourself out there all the time, but I am thankful that you do. You seem like such a sincere person, and I'm sorry people have left negative comments on your blog. I hope you don't decide to make your blog private.
Kelli I appreciate you posting the things you do. My daughter is 15 months old and I never knew any different then to give her her shots but now I'm think twice as to how many she gets at a time and it's because of you post the information you do! I'm so sorry people are so cruel, please keep posting helpful information for people there are people like us who do appreciate it!
People are insane. You posted published inforamtion so people could be THE MOST informed. Don't let them get to you. You have helped so many people! Don't let these people get you down!
Please don't let some cruel people ruin all the beauty and healing that comes from your wonderful blog. Or if you do make it private, please let me read it... you are a daily inspiration to me.
WHAT!!! F**K those haters!! If they don't like what you are blogging, then don't read it! I love how people are so "brave" to negatively comment on your blog, but you know they would NEVER say what they think to your face, especially the strangers. Haters!!!
Stay strong, don't let the mean people bother you, they are just miserable and want you to be miserable too. Okay, I'm done venting.
I'm sorry that you are feeling so much negativity right now. I hope you didn't take my comment as negative as I most certainly did not mean it that way. I applaud the fact that you're doing so much research on SIDS and how to prevent it.
While I have read your last post, I have refused to read the comments on that post... I knew they wouldn't be worth my time. They're not worth your's, either.
Or Maddies.
We have struggled with infertility for over 4.5 years and brought our (FIRST) miracle home through adoption 3 years ago, today :-) In the past year alone, we have experienced FOUR failed adoptions... while I would never, ever diminish the pain of losing a child like you have, I also think we have experienced MANY of the same emotions in this unfair, painful, and excriciating journey.
I was a special needs teacher before bringing our baby home and I have had the privilage and honor of getting to know my precious students' parents... every parent has a different story but every one of them is legitimate because their stories involve their precious children. Therefore, they're all right. Many many many of their stories involve some timeline revolving around vaccines. I've read the research, I've talked to doctors personally, I've done my OWN research and the final point is... research doesn't matter! These parents unequivically love and know their children more than anyone in this world and that makes their stories CORRECT and VALID and TRUE....
and so is yours.
Change your story a million times, if you want to. Re-research and keep learning and continue to solve and change and learn. In the end, whatever story you end up with will be yours; Correct. Valid. And true.
Of all we've been through in this past year, I often wonder why God has so much faith in us. Why in the world does He trust us to handle all of this pain and sadness? I would do ANYTHING to be weak in His eyes, if that's what it took to take all of this away!!!
But...
We're stronger than that. He just knows this.
AND SO ARE YOU, Kellie.
So are you.
Ignore. Hit 'delete', if you want to. This is YOUR blog and it's YOUR story... one that needs to be told. Not just for you but for all of the Maddies out there.
Hit 'delete' but whatever you do, don't hit 'private.'
This is your story.
I'm continuing to pray for you, Kellie. Every day.
I have been following you for a while (just never commented because I was so shattered in myself and didnt know what to say to you tho I am so sorry about your baby) Dont let people get to you I am not a fan of immunisations even tho all my kids and grandkids have theirs.I dont agree with them being given so many at once when so small and I still believe like anything some have allergies to it and some dont.(just like some have egg or peanut allergies and others dont) The ones that do have an allergy to the ingredients I believe get sick or brain damaged or become autistic and others may die.Wont ever convince me otherwise.I am always on tenterhooks after my grandkids have theirs. People are mean at times.just keep doing what you do and delete nasty comments as you said on your last post it was something you read so people need to pull their head in sometimes and listen to both sides.
I'm sorry to hear this. Keep your chin up Momma. You did the best you knew how for Maddie and I know you will do the best you know how for your future babies as well. YOU are the only one who can make the right choices for your kids. No one else matters. You are a great Mommy, a great teacher, a great blogger. Don't loose sight of the things God has planned for you due to some silly ignorant people :-)
Thank you so much for your blog. It has taught me so much about child safety and made me think about things i haven't before. I hope you keep it public and i pray for you everyday.
I just read your previous blog since I wasn't able to read it yesterday. I thought it should make everyone think about and research the shots. So sorry that some people have taken offense.
I like reading your blogs, Kellie! You have an open heart to things and that is good. Always remember when you post something like this you will get different opinions from all walks of life. It's not personal, it's just their thoughts. I chose to vaccinate my children. Recently, I went to an old, historical cemetery in a ghost town called Iron City. It was on Mt. Princeton in Colorado. Someone takes great care of this cemetery dating back to the late 1800's. There's a big marker at the front telling about all fifty-four souls who are resting there. Two sisters, ages 3 1/2 and 22 months died one day apart from diptheria. That's the vaccine in the Dtap. I've thought long and hard and wondered what those parents would think of having that option today. Would they have said "no'? still boggles my mind. Thanks for your helpful information.
Let me just say in a very kind manor to those who are leaving negative and ugly comments; did you read what Kellie wrote? Or did you skip the part where she said, "I honestly don't know what to believe" 3 times in the last blog entry. All Kellie is doing is sharing some information that she found. She has done a wonderful job spreading SIDS awareness by talking about bumpers, serotonin levels, mattress wrapping, and vaccinations. I for one LOVE that she is doing everything she can to inform her readers of what she has read. If you don't like what she blogs about then by all means do not comment. Kellie, it completely blows me away that there are such rude and ignorant people out there. I am sorry that you have to deal with their garbage. I appreciate the information that you are sharing. After your post about the Angel care monitors I got one from the Team M: Maddie and Macie's Auction for the American SIDS Institute and I am SO thankful that I did!!! About 1 month after I started using it my son stopped breathing and the alarm went off at 3:30am. My husband and I jumped out of bed and ran into the nursery, scooped my son up and he did a big gasp for air. The monitor saved his life. You helped because you educated me about the monitor. Your help is EXTREMELY helpful and I will forever be thankful for you and your very informative posts. Keep up the great work, you are changing lives for the better.
It is a very controversial topic. And although I don't think vaccinations cause SIDS, it is something to think about. I have a four month old baby girl and because of your blog we took off her crib bumpers and bought an angel-care monitor. You are absolutely helping people by getting all sorts of information out there. Please continue, and ignore the haters. I appreciate the info I've read on your blog, and I pray for your family. I can't imagine going through the things you have to. *hugs*
I have checked your blog everyday since I found it in June. And I am SOOOO Thankful for all of your information and advice. I wouldn't have known about the babesafe mattress covers if it weren't for your blog. And who knows...those covers I bought for my son's crib and pack and play could very well save his life!!!!
Please don't pay attention to the "bad apples" I pray for you all the time. And even when I'm doing my routine things I think about your little Maddie and how I can't even begin to imagine your heartbreak. I hope you find the peace that only our LORD can give.
I did give my Son the first DTap shot at 2 months but only because they're was an outbreak in my area of Pertussis and a local baby died from it. Scared the crap outta me. My Daughters didn't have any shots before 6 mths. And now I'm gonna postpone any of Matthew's until he turns 6 months too.
Thank You, Thank you for all you do. And for all of your information. I honestly believe that God is guiding you in helping others by educating them!
My children have had all their shots and had no problems, Im not saying that that don't have something to do with SIDS I just think that it has to do with the way a childs body works...everyone is differnt. My daughter ran high fevers for 24 hours after most of her shots,where my son was not affected at all.
People are always going to have an opinion about everything you do/say/post. You are giving information to people who might not otherwise be aware. Don't let the negative get you down. Thank you for letting us get to know you through your blog. I will continue to pray for your family!
I went back and read your post after seeing this. I disagree with not giving children vaccinations, and I don't necessarily agree with the research you presented because of its inherent flaws. BUT (big BUT), I also think that this is your personal blog- you have every right to post your own opinions. Honestly, if people can't post their opinions nicely, they shouldn't. But then, that's just not how it ends up going. The truth of the matter is, science isn't exact. As a scientist, I know this.
All any of us can ever do is make the best choices for our children. I would be lying if I said I wasn't nervous every time my daughter received a vaccination. Vaccinations can cause so many different reactions, and I think that parents, at the core, are desperate to know, black and white, the real truth. I enjoy your blog very much. I had someone steal my content a couple weeks ago, and it really got me down for a bit and made me question continuing. I do hope you come to the resolution that's right for you, but I'll miss reading your posts if you go. You are such an inspiration.
I'm sorry people were so mean and hurtful. While I tend to be a very pro-vaccine person, I do believe that parents need to be fully educated and make their own decisions. What you posted was not heavily opinionated - just posting something to think about. Try to not let other people's hurtful actions affect you too much. They aren't worth your worry.
I am sorry this is happening to you. You are doing God's work in sharing this information... dont let the devil in people try to stop you from it! Maddie is proud of you and so are we.
You can't let the things insignificant people say to you get to you; time to thicken up that skin of yours! Otherwise, I would suggest making your blog private. Good luck!
I hope your don't make your blog private, I do enjoy reading. And people shouldn't be so rude about things you post, it's your opinions and it's your blog!
Thank you for sharing all of the information you do!! I had no idea there was any controversy over vaccinations and am so glad you posted that! Whether I end up agreeing with it or not, it has at least led me to look into it and do some research! I appreciate you posting all of the different information, especially since I am pregnant with our first child and don't know a lot of these things! I also love reading your updates about how you are coming along. You give so many of us inspiration and strength, please don't make your blog private because of these rude people!
Thanks for sharing your last post. I totally believe there is some truth in vaccination and SIDS. I'm so not for vaccinating infants. I think they give them to baby's way to young. But being a foster parent I have no say in the matter,I have to go along with whatever the Doctors recommend. I had a one baby that would run a fever for 5 days straight after every time she would receive shots. The doctors would tell me it was normal. Normal...really, and I'm supposed to by that! then at a year old I found out that they had given her too many shots. They over vaccinated the poor baby! Somehow they had given her the 18mo series at around 9mo. Then they told me she will need to get them again in a few months. That made me sooooo mad. And this poor baby is so tiny on top of this, she's only in the 3rd percentile for height and height. And I hate how doctors always push the flu shot too, really, is that really necessary.
I don't think the majority of those negative comments were directed at you so much as they were directed at the subject itself. It's a very controversial subject and people have strong opinions.
I do have a private blog simply because I don't want 'strange' people mis-understanding my blogs intentions. I am on the fence about shots, as a adult just two years ago at age 54 I got the mumps because I was not vaccinated as a child, then in 2011 I got them again I realize it is very dangerous and serious and horrible. Not even mentioning the pain. I would go with caution when giving the shots but still do them. It is really important. (when I got the mumps the first time I worked in a pharmacy where someone came in with an active case and they didn't know it.) Please us caution but still vaccinate.
I'm sorry to hear that people are being so negative toward you. I appreciate all the information you post about SIDS prevention. Its up to us as parents to research these things and make a decision for ourselves. It saddens me that people can't respect others opinions.
Oh Kellie- I am so sorry.. I think vaccinations are a very touchy subject since so many people have different opinions regarding them. I was in no way offended by your previous post and understood that you were posting the info simply because it was something you had read, not saying that they are either "good" or "bad" for any child. I am sorry that some people can be cruel in their comments, meanwhile some might not mean to come off that way either. Just know that most of your followers know you are such an amazing mother who loves your daughter more than anything, and are just trying to put out any information you come across that could possibly be helpful and maybe prevent the same terrible tragedy that happened to your sweet little Maddie. You're such a strong woman! Lots of Love NandTandBandB.blogspot.com
Btw..I am a new follower and found your blog through some other girls blogs I've became friends with on here..aka blog stalking lol, from all going through infertility and ivf. Ashley from "Stealing Baby Kisses" is one..and when I stumbled upon yours I noticed you are a follower of Kendra's blog "Living Our Love Song". I have been a follower of Kendra's for a long time and have actually talked with her through email cause I have a friend who is friends with her sister and she actually lives nearby me. It's just crazy how we can all connect from all over the place, even though all our stories are different. I was so glad to see you found each other on here. You are both amazing!
Hi Kellie - sorry I have not posted a comment in awhile - but this makes me so angry I had to comment. I know when you blog, you open yourself to positive and negative comments. But sometimes people can cross the line and attack the PERSON and not just comment on the SUBJECT. I see it over and over - this is one reason I don't blog. I know it would upset me too much to hear all that negativity! I'm so sorry this happened to you - do what you need to for yourself. I hope you will keep your blog open. My husband and I are praying for you.
Don't listen to those negative people! Does the information you shared scare me? Yes, but it is informative and I am glad you shared! If my son did not have to have shots for mother's day out, I would wait too! Keep your chin up!
I think every blog gets negative comments. I've gotten some pretty nasty ones because we adopted our daughter from China. I just moderate comments so that the nasty people can be deleted and not seen by the rest.
My comment on your last post was pro vaccination. I wasn't attacking you. I was just posting what was on the cdc page. I wish I could tell you what causes SIDS. Hopefully, there will a break through soon.
Kellie, Keep on keeping on. I work for a pharmaceutical company. I was neutral on the topic of vaccines until I ended up with a child with a major speech delay. I did research, I kept an open mind. If there is ANYTHING I have learned in this journey, it's that you can never say never, about anything.
To discount the opinions of so many mothers that felt that vaxes played a role in their child's passing would be negligent. Mama's always know. ((hugs)) Kellie. You are educating so many people. If you ever help 1 child out there, it's all worth it.
I hope you leave it open, I never comment, but your story touches my heart. I pray for you and your husband, and hope you will continue to share your story. Thank you for sharing information, I realized you weren't taking sides, you were simply sharing information. You gave all parents a lot to think about!
Hi Kellie - I read your blog everyday, even though I don't comment much. I appreciate your openess and how much you have shared about your life. I do hope you continue to blog. We all aren't going to agree on everything, which is what makes us all who we are. I have vaccinated my son, and I really didn't give it much thought, my husband is an elementary school principal and he is adamant about vaccines. But since reading your post and reading all the comments about those who choose not to vaccinate, how does that work with the school systems and daycare? My daycare requires certain shots, and my husband brought home the vaccination required for going to school. We live in Maryland and the state only allows exceptions for religious and medical reasons (like if the child's immune system cannot handle the vaccine). I just wonder how parents got around not vaccinating school age children. Anyway, I think and pray for you often. Hang in there!!
I went back and looked at every comment that was left on your vax blog. I agree with Jenni C. I didn't see any comment left that was attacking you, nor did I see any that were downright rude. I think people were stating their opinion and it appears most people agree with not vaccinating.
At the end of the blog, you stated that this particular post was going to "open up a can of worms". Therefore, I am thinking that you expected to get mixed comments.
I do have to say that I feel parents/loved ones of a child, such as those on the website you quoted, whether the child be 15 days or 15 years, will always look for a tangible reason why the child passed away (obviously at 15 years, the cause is not SIDS). Because SIDS is such a silent, enigmatic killer, parents are going to try and connect whatever they can to it (vax, mattress toxins, bumpers). While those may be valid reasons, the one that makes the least amount of sense is vax. Bumpers cause suffocation and mattress toxins cause lungs to slow down, eventually leading to suffocation. What do vax cause? I don't think there's enough research and evidence to answer that question.
Finally, I feel that agree everyone has the right to raise their children how they would like (breastfeed/bottle feed, cloth diaper/disposable diaper, home school/send to school). However, I agree with bluegrassmom in that when parents choose not to vaccinate their child, they are putting my infant who is too young for shots at risk for many diseases that were eradicated many years ago, but are making a comeback through unvaccinated children. To me, this is not ok to put MY child(ren) at risk.
I just wanted to send you a note of encouragement apart from this vaccine-saga.
I've been following your blog for a while and I hope you don't make it private. Your story touches my heart. I cannot imagine what these last few months have been like for you. I think about you and I pray for you.
Your Maddie is beautiful and she, no doubt, had many people who loved her while she was here. Never stop advocating for her. Never apologize for advocating for her.
I pray that you find more and more stregnth with each day.
I can't believe people pick on you. Thats a horrible thing people did. I swear some people have no heart! I hope you keep your blog public. I love reading it whenever you post. It gives me hope that everything will works out for you and your family. Ignore ugly... When people are trying to bring you down they are trying to get you down to their level. Be a duck, just let the water roll off your back.
Please don't make your blog private. I am sorry that you have to deal with such negative people. You are entitled to your opinion and if they don't like it they don't have to read it. Keeping you and your husband in my thoughts and prayers!
I truly appreciate all your advice and I thank you for sticking in there for us Mom's. You have a special place in my heart and we pray for you all the time. Thank you for your love you share on your blog.
Kellie - I would like to thank you for your post about the vaccinations. I am a Mom of two and to this day I still question the "right" thing to do about that. I have gotten both my boys vaccinated on schedule and thankfully they are both healthy. I think what you are doing (by educating all of us) is amazing!! You are a strong and such an amazing woman/Momma!! Again, thank you!! Sending some hugs to you also!!!
I have been following your blog for a while now. I am also a teacher so I rarely get to post/look at blogs since school started (I know you can understand;), so I missed the post. BUT do not let those negative Nancys get you down. People look way too deeply into things and these days you can't say anything without people being "offended". You are amazing and strong. I LOVE reading your blog and pray for you often. God Bless You and thank you for sharing your story with us!
I am so sorry that you were getting so many negative comments. But, everyone who writes about controversial issues like vaccinations does, so that was to be expected. People always have opinions and its actually scary when I was reading the comments of mothers who decided not to vaccinate their children based on someone's blog's entry or a "study" a geological professor that sells some kind of monitor. People tend to forget that the majority of diseases our children are vaccinated today against are virtually non-existent anymore so they don't think it's necessary. They never experienced someone dying from something like rubella or measles or became paralyzed after having polio. People also love all those "government conspiracy" theories. Not vaccinating is like a russian roulette. Not vaccinating alone won't kill anyone, but if someone meets the bullet (gets in contact with a disease), it may be fatal. Especially today, with such easy travel options and immigration, the chances that someone gets in contact with something that doesnt exist are high.
Just last month, we had an outbreak here of a disease that hasn't been noticed for several decades. Three children and one teenager died, none of them was vaccinated.
I met someone last year and he was very passionate about not vaccinating. He was presenting me with tons of blogs entry (everytime he would find something he would print it) Not one single entry was a credential study done by a medical scholar.
People also argue that doctors get money for vaccinating from the companies. I would argue that the same goes for the medicine that is necessary to treat it. And there are tons of medical proffessionals that do not get any incentives, like public health nurses, and because of that they have no interest in presenting you with untruth, why would they tell you to vaccinate if its that bad, they get no money from doing so. My cousin is a doctor, does get no money from any vaccinating company and still believes in vaccinating.
I know babies that died from SIDS and never were vaccinated. I know babies that were vaccinated and didn't die. If vaccines caused SIDS, wouldnt all the babies die... And I am sure that there would be already a huge outpour and not by parents only, but CNN, CBC, and other journalists, they are like pitbulls, they dont leave any stone unturned and this would be the story of their lifetime.
YOu're doing such a wonderful job of spreading the SIDS prevention awareness, I have shared your blog with many friends, and I hope that you won't make your blog private, because there are parents that read it and get tips that may prevent SIDS. I am sure at this point that you have already saved many babies just by sharing the prevention tips !
So I hope that you are no longer upset by all the negative comments, all you did is what you thought is the best to share, it's your blog and your right to share what you want ! And even the negative attention is an attention and brings more awareness to issues like this.
I missed the post but I'm sorry people were rude to you. Big hugs ((((hugs)))))) you have the right to write anything you want on your page. I hope you keep your page public
i would like to say thank you for posting about vaccinations. i always have had many of those same questions run through my head, I have a 7 month old and i think a mothers instinct is so hard to ignore. i feel very sad that people were cruel about this, each mother has the choice if you want to vaccinate or not it IS NOT REQUIRED!! i pray for you so often sweet girl!!
Hi Kellie- I missed your post so I can't really comment on it. But my own daughter will be 1 in a month and I am on the fence about the 1 year vaccines. She's on schedule with all of her vaccines. But her 1 year ones will have additional ones such as the MMR and chicken pox. My doctor is OK with me delaying her MMRs and understands my concern. There is always an inherent danger with vaccines but in the end, it will save more lives than any bad reaction to it. But I want to wait until my daughter is a little older and stronger before administering the MMR. I think part of the reason why a lot of parents are passionate about vaccines is, vaccines only work if EVERYONE gets them. But the flip side, what if your child has a bad reaction to it, even death? It's something to think about for sure. When I was younger, although I was vaccinated for diphteria, I still was infected with it by a family friend's child who was visiting when I was 1. I survived but it goes to show you, sometimes only a parent's vigilance with their child and who they come into contact with is more important than anything else. Keep up the good work Kellie. You are in my thoughts.
I found your post to be very informative. I am vaccinating my daughter, but we have spread a few of them out so she didn't get too many shots at once. As parents, that's our right. There are quite a few moms whose babies died right after getting vaccinated; that can't be just a coincidence. Educating ourselves is the best way to protect our children.
Sorry you got all the negative comments. Please don't let them chase you away from this great blog of yours! =)
Hey, I just wanted to let you know that people are jerks sometimes. For special reasons we don't do immunizations and you wouldn't believe some of the things that have been said to me about how I am the reason that children catch diseases before they are able to get immunized, and how my baby is going to get sick, etc. But I'll let you know... my baby has been sick once in his life, and he is the smartest baby I know, even his pediatrician is shocked. But... that's not to say we won't get our next kids vaccines. You know whats best, and honestly whatever is meant to happen is God's will. He sent disease down here for a reason. Just ignore those mean people, they are just scared. Just turn to God and he'll make it better :)
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Kellie--- Just wanted to let you know that I pray for you daily. I am the mother of a 5 month old little girl after a time of infertility. I know you are just trying to put things out there and keep people informed. Thinking of you today! Jen
THANK YOU for sharing so much great information with your readers. You're doing a great thing. You have opened my eyes to so many options... I can't thank you enough! I love that when it is time to have children I will have a more open mind to what is out there and the best way for ME to care for my children. I hate that others can be so ugly, but I believe that you've done a great job of putting your ideas and then ideas in general out there for us.
THANK YOU SO MUCH! for everything you do. You share all kinds of information. I do not have kids, by my husband and I are trying to get pregnant right now and I truly appreciate all of the things you post about. I do disagree with your post about vaccinations, but at the same time, it made me think about it and if my thinking is correct, that was your point. To get parents thinking about these controversial issues. I think it is TERRIBLE that people can't see this and comment negatively on peoples blogs. You aren't out to hurt anyone. You are the sweetest woman I know! Please, keep posting, keep your head up and most of all KEEP SMILING AND LOVING! :)
I really do hope that you continue leaving your blog open for the public. Your story, even though heart breaking, is truly amazing. You, your husband, and your precious daughter are an inspiration to appreciate your family to the fullest daily. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
I appreciate you sharing all the information that you do! People that post negatively are closed minded and have no right. Parents need to be informed of all possibilities so that they can make the best choices for their family, and you are doing a great thing by sharing all the info that you do. You have taught me alot that I did not already know and have inspired me to be a better mom. I make sure to hug and kiss my kids at least one time each day for Maddie. Thank you for all that you do! (((Hugs)))
Oh, don't make your blog private!!! I'm only 15 and people leave negative comments to me!
One of the best thing I have enjoyed about your blog, as been watching you look at things from all perspectives. Even in your struggles of losing your daughter. It is a horrible loss, that nothing can be done to make it right. Yet, you want to reach out and help others. You would do ANYTHING to prevent one other mother from suffering from your fate. You are an awesome person and I admire your strength.
Don't let the negative Nellie's get you down. There is a lot of controversy to immunizations and there is only a right answer for the individual moms and doctor involved in that specific situation.
I'm so sorry you had such a reaction.
I can imagine that people want a concrete reason their baby is gone, and SIDS just doesn't cut it. I would be furious to hear "its just one of those things". I would want an exact reason. I think people search for answers and when they find a possible link its like a glimmer of an answer.
We all just do he best we can and beyond that it is out of our hands. You are right in helping to educate, and the discussion that comes from that, be it negative or positive will provoke thought and inspire education.
Please keep it up :)
Pathetic that people can be that way. Parents need to be informed. Ever since you wrote about the vaccines, I've been doingresearch that I should have done a long time ago. In the coming weeks, im going to hv some guest bloggers, moms who have or have not vaccinated their children, and moms who have but no longer do. I think its a subject that needs to be talked about. And for the record, I think ppl become judgmental because they don't want to face facts.
Pathetic that people can be that way. Parents need to be informed. Ever since you wrote about the vaccines, I've been doingresearch that I should have done a long time ago. In the coming weeks, im going to hv some guest bloggers, moms who have or have not vaccinated their children, and moms who have but no longer do. I think its a subject that needs to be talked about. And for the record, I think ppl become judgmental because they don't want to face facts.
I wanted to comment on your previous post, but I was afraid it would anger some people. I don't know how you put yourself out there all the time, but I am thankful that you do. You seem like such a sincere person, and I'm sorry people have left negative comments on your blog. I hope you don't decide to make your blog private.
Kelli I appreciate you posting the things you do. My daughter is 15 months old and I never knew any different then to give her her shots but now I'm think twice as to how many she gets at a time and it's because of you post the information you do! I'm so sorry people are so cruel, please keep posting helpful information for people there are people like us who do appreciate it!
People are insane. You posted published inforamtion so people could be THE MOST informed. Don't let them get to you. You have helped so many people! Don't let these people get you down!
Please don't let some cruel people ruin all the beauty and healing that comes from your wonderful blog. Or if you do make it private, please let me read it... you are a daily inspiration to me.
WHAT!!! F**K those haters!! If they don't like what you are blogging, then don't read it! I love how people are so "brave" to negatively comment on your blog, but you know they would NEVER say what they think to your face, especially the strangers. Haters!!!
Stay strong, don't let the mean people bother you, they are just miserable and want you to be miserable too. Okay, I'm done venting.
I'm sorry that you are feeling so much negativity right now. I hope you didn't take my comment as negative as I most certainly did not mean it that way. I applaud the fact that you're doing so much research on SIDS and how to prevent it.
While I have read your last post, I have refused to read the comments on that post... I knew they wouldn't be worth my time. They're not worth your's, either.
Or Maddies.
We have struggled with infertility for over 4.5 years and brought our (FIRST) miracle home through adoption 3 years ago, today :-) In the past year alone, we have experienced FOUR failed adoptions... while I would never, ever diminish the pain of losing a child like you have, I also think we have experienced MANY of the same emotions in this unfair, painful, and excriciating journey.
I was a special needs teacher before bringing our baby home and I have had the privilage and honor of getting to know my precious students' parents... every parent has a different story but every one of them is legitimate because their stories involve their precious children. Therefore, they're all right. Many many many of their stories involve some timeline revolving around vaccines. I've read the research, I've talked to doctors personally, I've done my OWN research and the final point is... research doesn't matter! These parents unequivically love and know their children more than anyone in this world and that makes their stories CORRECT and VALID and TRUE....
and so is yours.
Change your story a million times, if you want to. Re-research and keep learning and continue to solve and change and learn. In the end, whatever story you end up with will be yours; Correct. Valid. And true.
Of all we've been through in this past year, I often wonder why God has so much faith in us. Why in the world does He trust us to handle all of this pain and sadness? I would do ANYTHING to be weak in His eyes, if that's what it took to take all of this away!!!
But...
We're stronger than that. He just knows this.
AND SO ARE YOU, Kellie.
So are you.
Ignore. Hit 'delete', if you want to. This is YOUR blog and it's YOUR story... one that needs to be told. Not just for you but for all of the Maddies out there.
Hit 'delete' but whatever you do, don't hit 'private.'
This is your story.
I'm continuing to pray for you, Kellie. Every day.
~Lindsay
I have been following you for a while (just never commented because I was so shattered in myself and didnt know what to say to you tho I am so sorry about your baby) Dont let people get to you I am not a fan of immunisations even tho all my kids and grandkids have theirs.I dont agree with them being given so many at once when so small and I still believe like anything some have allergies to it and some dont.(just like some have egg or peanut allergies and others dont)
The ones that do have an allergy to the ingredients I believe get sick or brain damaged or become autistic and others may die.Wont ever convince me otherwise.I am always on tenterhooks after my grandkids have theirs.
People are mean at times.just keep doing what you do and delete nasty comments as you said on your last post it was something you read so people need to pull their head in sometimes and listen to both sides.
I'm sorry to hear this. Keep your chin up Momma. You did the best you knew how for Maddie and I know you will do the best you know how for your future babies as well. YOU are the only one who can make the right choices for your kids. No one else matters. You are a great Mommy, a great teacher, a great blogger. Don't loose sight of the things God has planned for you due to some silly ignorant people :-)
Thank you so much for your blog. It has taught me so much about child safety and made me think about things i haven't before. I hope you keep it public and i pray for you everyday.
I just read your previous blog since I wasn't able to read it yesterday. I thought it should make everyone think about and research the shots. So sorry that some people have taken offense.
Thinking of you and knowing that you will rise above all of this. Sending you love from the Mitten. <3
I like reading your blogs, Kellie! You have an open heart to things and that is good. Always remember when you post something like this you will get different opinions from all walks of life. It's not personal, it's just their thoughts. I chose to vaccinate my children. Recently, I went to an old, historical cemetery in a ghost town called Iron City. It was on Mt. Princeton in Colorado. Someone takes great care of this cemetery dating back to the late 1800's. There's a big marker at the front telling about all fifty-four souls who are resting there. Two sisters, ages 3 1/2 and 22 months died one day apart from diptheria. That's the vaccine in the Dtap. I've thought long and hard and wondered what those parents would think of having that option today. Would they have said "no'? still boggles my mind. Thanks for your helpful information.
Let me just say in a very kind manor to those who are leaving negative and ugly comments; did you read what Kellie wrote? Or did you skip the part where she said, "I honestly don't know what to believe" 3 times in the last blog entry. All Kellie is doing is sharing some information that she found. She has done a wonderful job spreading SIDS awareness by talking about bumpers, serotonin levels, mattress wrapping, and vaccinations. I for one LOVE that she is doing everything she can to inform her readers of what she has read. If you don't like what she blogs about then by all means do not comment. Kellie, it completely blows me away that there are such rude and ignorant people out there. I am sorry that you have to deal with their garbage. I appreciate the information that you are sharing. After your post about the Angel care monitors I got one from the Team M: Maddie and Macie's Auction for the American SIDS Institute and I am SO thankful that I did!!! About 1 month after I started using it my son stopped breathing and the alarm went off at 3:30am. My husband and I jumped out of bed and ran into the nursery, scooped my son up and he did a big gasp for air. The monitor saved his life. You helped because you educated me about the monitor. Your help is EXTREMELY helpful and I will forever be thankful for you and your very informative posts. Keep up the great work, you are changing lives for the better.
It is a very controversial topic. And although I don't think vaccinations cause SIDS, it is something to think about. I have a four month old baby girl and because of your blog we took off her crib bumpers and bought an angel-care monitor. You are absolutely helping people by getting all sorts of information out there. Please continue, and ignore the haters. I appreciate the info I've read on your blog, and I pray for your family. I can't imagine going through the things you have to. *hugs*
I have checked your blog everyday since I found it in June. And I am SOOOO Thankful for all of your information and advice. I wouldn't have known about the babesafe mattress covers if it weren't for your blog. And who knows...those covers I bought for my son's crib and pack and play could very well save his life!!!!
Please don't pay attention to the "bad apples" I pray for you all the time. And even when I'm doing my routine things I think about your little Maddie and how I can't even begin to imagine your heartbreak. I hope you find the peace that only our LORD can give.
I did give my Son the first DTap shot at 2 months but only because they're was an outbreak in my area of Pertussis and a local baby died from it. Scared the crap outta me. My Daughters didn't have any shots before 6 mths. And now I'm gonna postpone any of Matthew's until he turns 6 months too.
Thank You, Thank you for all you do. And for all of your information. I honestly believe that God is guiding you in helping others by educating them!
My children have had all their shots and had no problems, Im not saying that that don't have something to do with SIDS I just think that it has to do with the way a childs body works...everyone is differnt. My daughter ran high fevers for 24 hours after most of her shots,where my son was not affected at all.
People are always going to have an opinion about everything you do/say/post. You are giving information to people who might not otherwise be aware. Don't let the negative get you down. Thank you for letting us get to know you through your blog. I will continue to pray for your family!
I went back and read your post after seeing this. I disagree with not giving children vaccinations, and I don't necessarily agree with the research you presented because of its inherent flaws. BUT (big BUT), I also think that this is your personal blog- you have every right to post your own opinions. Honestly, if people can't post their opinions nicely, they shouldn't. But then, that's just not how it ends up going.
The truth of the matter is, science isn't exact. As a scientist, I know this.
All any of us can ever do is make the best choices for our children. I would be lying if I said I wasn't nervous every time my daughter received a vaccination. Vaccinations can cause so many different reactions, and I think that parents, at the core, are desperate to know, black and white, the real truth.
I enjoy your blog very much. I had someone steal my content a couple weeks ago, and it really got me down for a bit and made me question continuing. I do hope you come to the resolution that's right for you, but I'll miss reading your posts if you go. You are such an inspiration.
I'm sorry people were so mean and hurtful. While I tend to be a very pro-vaccine person, I do believe that parents need to be fully educated and make their own decisions. What you posted was not heavily opinionated - just posting something to think about. Try to not let other people's hurtful actions affect you too much. They aren't worth your worry.
I am sorry this is happening to you. You are doing God's work in sharing this information... dont let the devil in people try to stop you from it! Maddie is proud of you and so are we.
You can't let the things insignificant people say to you get to you; time to thicken up that skin of yours! Otherwise, I would suggest making your blog private. Good luck!
I hope your don't make your blog private, I do enjoy reading. And people shouldn't be so rude about things you post, it's your opinions and it's your blog!
Thank you for sharing all of the information you do!! I had no idea there was any controversy over vaccinations and am so glad you posted that! Whether I end up agreeing with it or not, it has at least led me to look into it and do some research! I appreciate you posting all of the different information, especially since I am pregnant with our first child and don't know a lot of these things! I also love reading your updates about how you are coming along. You give so many of us inspiration and strength, please don't make your blog private because of these rude people!
Thanks for sharing your last post. I totally believe there is some truth in vaccination and SIDS. I'm so not for vaccinating infants. I think they give them to baby's way to young. But being a foster parent I have no say in the matter,I have to go along with whatever the Doctors recommend. I had a one baby that would run a fever for 5 days straight after every time she would receive shots. The doctors would tell me it was normal. Normal...really, and I'm supposed to by that! then at a year old I found out that they had given her too many shots. They over vaccinated the poor baby! Somehow they had given her the 18mo series at around 9mo. Then they told me she will need to get them again in a few months. That made me sooooo mad. And this poor baby is so tiny on top of this, she's only in the 3rd percentile for height and height. And I hate how doctors always push the flu shot too, really, is that really necessary.
I don't think the majority of those negative comments were directed at you so much as they were directed at the subject itself. It's a very controversial subject and people have strong opinions.
I do have a private blog simply because I don't want 'strange' people mis-understanding my blogs intentions. I am on the fence about shots, as a adult just two years ago at age 54 I got the mumps because I was not vaccinated as a child, then in 2011 I got them again I realize it is very dangerous and serious and horrible.
Not even mentioning the pain.
I would go with caution when giving the shots but still do them.
It is really important. (when I got the mumps the first time I worked in a pharmacy where someone came in with an active case and they didn't know it.)
Please us caution but still vaccinate.
I'm sorry to hear that people are being so negative toward you. I appreciate all the information you post about SIDS prevention. Its up to us as parents to research these things and make a decision for ourselves. It saddens me that people can't respect others opinions.
Oh Kellie- I am so sorry.. I think vaccinations are a very touchy subject since so many people have different opinions regarding them. I was in no way offended by your previous post and understood that you were posting the info simply because it was something you had read, not saying that they are either "good" or "bad" for any child. I am sorry that some people can be cruel in their comments, meanwhile some might not mean to come off that way either. Just know that most of your followers know you are such an amazing mother who loves your daughter more than anything, and are just trying to put out any information you come across that could possibly be helpful and maybe prevent the same terrible tragedy that happened to your sweet little Maddie. You're such a strong woman!
Lots of Love
NandTandBandB.blogspot.com
Btw..I am a new follower and found your blog through some other girls blogs I've became friends with on here..aka blog stalking lol, from all going through infertility and ivf. Ashley from "Stealing Baby Kisses" is one..and when I stumbled upon yours I noticed you are a follower of Kendra's blog "Living Our Love Song". I have been a follower of Kendra's for a long time and have actually talked with her through email cause I have a friend who is friends with her sister and she actually lives nearby me. It's just crazy how we can all connect from all over the place, even though all our stories are different. I was so glad to see you found each other on here. You are both amazing!
Hi Kellie - sorry I have not posted a comment in awhile - but this makes me so angry I had to comment. I know when you blog, you open yourself to positive and negative comments. But sometimes people can cross the line and attack the PERSON and not just comment on the SUBJECT. I see it over and over - this is one reason I don't blog. I know it would upset me too much to hear all that negativity! I'm so sorry this happened to you - do what you need to for yourself. I hope you will keep your blog open. My husband and I are praying for you.
xo - Diane
Don't listen to those negative people! Does the information you shared scare me? Yes, but it is informative and I am glad you shared! If my son did not have to have shots for mother's day out, I would wait too! Keep your chin up!
I think every blog gets negative comments. I've gotten some pretty nasty ones because we adopted our daughter from China. I just moderate comments so that the nasty people can be deleted and not seen by the rest.
My comment on your last post was pro vaccination. I wasn't attacking you. I was just posting what was on the cdc page. I wish I could tell you what causes SIDS. Hopefully, there will a break through soon.
Kellie,
Keep on keeping on. I work for a pharmaceutical company. I was neutral on the topic of vaccines until I ended up with a child with a major speech delay. I did research, I kept an open mind. If there is ANYTHING I have learned in this journey, it's that you can never say never, about anything.
To discount the opinions of so many mothers that felt that vaxes played a role in their child's passing would be negligent. Mama's always know. ((hugs)) Kellie. You are educating so many people. If you ever help 1 child out there, it's all worth it.
I hope you leave it open, I never comment, but your story touches my heart. I pray for you and your husband, and hope you will continue to share your story. Thank you for sharing information, I realized you weren't taking sides, you were simply sharing information. You gave all parents a lot to think about!
Hi Kellie - I read your blog everyday, even though I don't comment much. I appreciate your openess and how much you have shared about your life. I do hope you continue to blog. We all aren't going to agree on everything, which is what makes us all who we are. I have vaccinated my son, and I really didn't give it much thought, my husband is an elementary school principal and he is adamant about vaccines. But since reading your post and reading all the comments about those who choose not to vaccinate, how does that work with the school systems and daycare? My daycare requires certain shots, and my husband brought home the vaccination required for going to school. We live in Maryland and the state only allows exceptions for religious and medical reasons (like if the child's immune system cannot handle the vaccine). I just wonder how parents got around not vaccinating school age children. Anyway, I think and pray for you often. Hang in there!!
I went back and looked at every comment that was left on your vax blog. I agree with Jenni C. I didn't see any comment left that was attacking you, nor did I see any that were downright rude. I think people were stating their opinion and it appears most people agree with not vaccinating.
At the end of the blog, you stated that this particular post was going to "open up a can of worms". Therefore, I am thinking that you expected to get mixed comments.
I do have to say that I feel parents/loved ones of a child, such as those on the website you quoted, whether the child be 15 days or 15 years, will always look for a tangible reason why the child passed away (obviously at 15 years, the cause is not SIDS). Because SIDS is such a silent, enigmatic killer, parents are going to try and connect whatever they can to it (vax, mattress toxins, bumpers). While those may be valid reasons, the one that makes the least amount of sense is vax. Bumpers cause suffocation and mattress toxins cause lungs to slow down, eventually leading to suffocation. What do vax cause? I don't think there's enough research and evidence to answer that question.
Finally, I feel that agree everyone has the right to raise their children how they would like (breastfeed/bottle feed, cloth diaper/disposable diaper, home school/send to school). However, I agree with bluegrassmom in that when parents choose not to vaccinate their child, they are putting my infant who is too young for shots at risk for many diseases that were eradicated many years ago, but are making a comeback through unvaccinated children. To me, this is not ok to put MY child(ren) at risk.
Hi Kellie,
I just wanted to send you a note of encouragement apart from this vaccine-saga.
I've been following your blog for a while and I hope you don't make it private. Your story touches my heart. I cannot imagine what these last few months have been like for you. I think about you and I pray for you.
Your Maddie is beautiful and she, no doubt, had many people who loved her while she was here. Never stop advocating for her. Never apologize for advocating for her.
I pray that you find more and more stregnth with each day.
Erin
I can't believe people pick on you. Thats a horrible thing people did. I swear some people have no heart! I hope you keep your blog public. I love reading it whenever you post. It gives me hope that everything will works out for you and your family. Ignore ugly... When people are trying to bring you down they are trying to get you down to their level. Be a duck, just let the water roll off your back.
Please don't make your blog private. I am sorry that you have to deal with such negative people. You are entitled to your opinion and if they don't like it they don't have to read it. Keeping you and your husband in my thoughts and prayers!
I truly appreciate all your advice and I thank you for sticking in there for us Mom's. You have a special place in my heart and we pray for you all the time. Thank you for your love you share on your blog.
Kellie - I would like to thank you for your post about the vaccinations. I am a Mom of two and to this day I still question the "right" thing to do about that. I have gotten both my boys vaccinated on schedule and thankfully they are both healthy. I think what you are doing (by educating all of us) is amazing!! You are a strong and such an amazing woman/Momma!!
Again, thank you!!
Sending some hugs to you also!!!
I have been following your blog for a while now. I am also a teacher so I rarely get to post/look at blogs since school started (I know you can understand;), so I missed the post. BUT do not let those negative Nancys get you down. People look way too deeply into things and these days you can't say anything without people being "offended". You are amazing and strong. I LOVE reading your blog and pray for you often. God Bless You and thank you for sharing your story with us!
I am so sorry that you were getting so many negative comments. But, everyone who writes about controversial issues like vaccinations does, so that was to be expected. People always have opinions and its actually scary when I was reading the comments of mothers who decided not to vaccinate their children based on someone's blog's entry or a "study" a geological professor that sells some kind of monitor. People tend to forget that the majority of diseases our children are vaccinated today against are virtually non-existent anymore so they don't think it's necessary. They never experienced someone dying from something like rubella or measles or became paralyzed after having polio. People also love all those "government conspiracy" theories. Not vaccinating is like a russian roulette. Not vaccinating alone won't kill anyone, but if someone meets the bullet (gets in contact with a disease), it may be fatal. Especially today, with such easy travel options and immigration, the chances that someone gets in contact with something that doesnt exist are high.
Just last month, we had an outbreak here of a disease that hasn't been noticed for several decades. Three children and one teenager died, none of them was vaccinated.
I met someone last year and he was very passionate about not vaccinating. He was presenting me with tons of blogs entry (everytime he would find something he would print it) Not one single entry was a credential study done by a medical scholar.
People also argue that doctors get money for vaccinating from the companies. I would argue that the same goes for the medicine that is necessary to treat it. And there are tons of medical proffessionals that do not get any incentives, like public health nurses, and because of that they have no interest in presenting you with untruth, why would they tell you to vaccinate if its that bad, they get no money from doing so. My cousin is a doctor, does get no money from any vaccinating company and still believes in vaccinating.
I know babies that died from SIDS and never were vaccinated. I know babies that were vaccinated and didn't die. If vaccines caused SIDS, wouldnt all the babies die... And I am sure that there would be already a huge outpour and not by parents only, but CNN, CBC, and other journalists, they are like pitbulls, they dont leave any stone unturned and this would be the story of their lifetime.
YOu're doing such a wonderful job of spreading the SIDS prevention awareness, I have shared your blog with many friends, and I hope that you won't make your blog private, because there are parents that read it and get tips that may prevent SIDS. I am sure at this point that you have already saved many babies just by sharing the prevention tips !
So I hope that you are no longer upset by all the negative comments, all you did is what you thought is the best to share, it's your blog and your right to share what you want ! And even the negative attention is an attention and brings more awareness to issues like this.
Hope you have a nice day today. Hugs...
I missed the post but I'm sorry people were rude to you. Big hugs ((((hugs)))))) you have the right to write anything you want on your page. I hope you keep your page public
i would like to say thank you for posting about vaccinations. i always have had many of those same questions run through my head, I have a 7 month old and i think a mothers instinct is so hard to ignore. i feel very sad that people were cruel about this, each mother has the choice if you want to vaccinate or not it IS NOT REQUIRED!! i pray for you so often sweet girl!!
Hi Kellie- I missed your post so I can't really comment on it. But my own daughter will be 1 in a month and I am on the fence about the 1 year vaccines. She's on schedule with all of her vaccines. But her 1 year ones will have additional ones such as the MMR and chicken pox. My doctor is OK with me delaying her MMRs and understands my concern. There is always an inherent danger with vaccines but in the end, it will save more lives than any bad reaction to it. But I want to wait until my daughter is a little older and stronger before administering the MMR. I think part of the reason why a lot of parents are passionate about vaccines is, vaccines only work if EVERYONE gets them. But the flip side, what if your child has a bad reaction to it, even death? It's something to think about for sure. When I was younger, although I was vaccinated for diphteria, I still was infected with it by a family friend's child who was visiting when I was 1. I survived but it goes to show you, sometimes only a parent's vigilance with their child and who they come into contact with is more important than anything else. Keep up the good work Kellie. You are in my thoughts.
I found your post to be very informative. I am vaccinating my daughter, but we have spread a few of them out so she didn't get too many shots at once. As parents, that's our right. There are quite a few moms whose babies died right after getting vaccinated; that can't be just a coincidence. Educating ourselves is the best way to protect our children.
Sorry you got all the negative comments. Please don't let them chase you away from this great blog of yours! =)
Hey, I just wanted to let you know that people are jerks sometimes. For special reasons we don't do immunizations and you wouldn't believe some of the things that have been said to me about how I am the reason that children catch diseases before they are able to get immunized, and how my baby is going to get sick, etc. But I'll let you know... my baby has been sick once in his life, and he is the smartest baby I know, even his pediatrician is shocked. But... that's not to say we won't get our next kids vaccines. You know whats best, and honestly whatever is meant to happen is God's will. He sent disease down here for a reason. Just ignore those mean people, they are just scared. Just turn to God and he'll make it better :)
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